The opportunity was waiting.I do not tell you this to make you feel badly, only to show you once again that you should trust your impulses, because in your particular case your ego has overbuilt its defenses.

机会在等着。我告诉你这些要让你感觉很糟糕，只想次告诉你，你应 该相信自己，因为就你例子来说，你自我已经过度建立了防御。