Why We Love People Who Hurt Us

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What is it that makes someone love you and not someone else and what does it make you love that person back as opposed to every other person in the world?

On the channel, we talked a lot about the general things that you can do from a charisma perspective like eye contact, tonality, and body language

that make you more attractive to people generally and I'll throw up a video on body language of attraction right there.

But that doesn't answer the question of why you tend to have a specific blueprint for the type of person that you are interested in.

And it doesn't answer the question why you might fall so hard for someone and your friends cannot see what it's all about or vice versayour friends fall hard

for particular individuals and you don't get it. So in this video, what I want to do is explore your individual blueprint

why is it that you like the people that you like and why is it the people who like you are drawn to you. And I hope not just to get you this blueprint but an entire new realm of

thought awareness and development that you can step into because I've found this to be very profound in my own life but before we get there, let's start with the beginning.

The first thing that we have to acknowledge is that love and attraction aren't voluntary. I love the idea that we could just sit around with this list

and we could say, "I want someone who is funny, who gets along with my friends, who is sharp in these ways and creative," but we all know that

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