Another common theme throughout the book is this line of maturity or in the book, it refers to it as the maturity continuum.

So as you can see, there's like three phases of maturity.

And the first phase is the dependent phase.

Okay, so this is all about I so, sorry all about you.

So you depend on other people, you have to do this for me. Okay?

Why didn't you do this for me?

Okay, so think of like a child when you're growing up, you're fully dependent on your parents.

And the people around you.

The next phase up is independent. Okay, so this is about I.

I can achieve this on my own. I don't need to rely on other people.