不闻不问

But the womans can't excessively use, because of facing chemisette tears, the man is always in fear uneasy, frighten into inaction, the Yao stop one's ears and the Yao absquatulate.

但女人们不地使用，因为面对女人的泪水，男人总是惶恐不安，不知所措，要么就不不问，要么就溜之大吉。