In his undergraduate years at the University of Pennsylvania, Charles led the debate team to national championship three years running and won the Larkin Prize.
And I would also hazard a guess that the kind of parent who writes a letter to his kid is probably the kind of parent that's not going to pull a Philip Larkin and totally screw up the kids.
The tomb is widely recognized today for its influence on Philip Larkin's 1955 poem, " An Arundel Tomb" , and its poignant final line " What will survive of us is love" .