That is why criticism and focusing on the problems can be so damaging particularly in the absence of a constructive idea.

这就是为什么批评和关注问题如此有害，尤其是在缺乏建设性想法情况下。

Seek constructive feedback and set learning goals for yourself.

寻求建设性反馈，为自己设定学习目标。

Meditation has helped me sort out my useless rumination from what I call constructive anguish.

冥想帮我从所谓积极式痛苦中摆脱掉那些无用沉思。

There is nothing constructive in Peter's opinion.

彼得意见一点建设性也没有。

This mindset is not constructive and is not adaptive to the context of 2015.”

这种观念不是建设性，并不适应2015年背景。”

Now, who's got something constructive to say?

好吧 请时停止争执？

He looks for satisfaction for his ego in the outside world when it has been bruised because of a rejection slip.Torrents of energy, both constructive and aggressive, suddenly are let loose where he works, and woe to all around.

当他自我因一次退稿事件而感到受伤时，他就向外寻求补偿。能量狂潮，极具建设性和侵略性，突然在他工作被释放出来，哀鸿遍野。

America does not perceive there to be a zero-sum game taking place; the United States and NATO remain committed to seeking a constructive, cooperative relationship with Russia.

美国不认为那里上演一场零和博弈;美国和北约将继续致力于寻求与俄罗斯建设及协作性关系。

Studies show that those who fail regularly and keep trying anyway are better equipped to respond to challenges and setbacks in a constructive way.

研究表明，那些经常失败却还坚持不断尝试人，从自身能力上讲，比较有能力面对对挑战与挫折。

And it also means a public sphere where debate is constructive and courteous, and where we treat each other with decency.

这也需要公共层面讨论充满建设性，充满诚意，我们彼此以礼相待。

The treasury secretary has called the talks constructive but that doesn't tell us much about how long the impasse might last or how far the impact may reach.

财政部长称谈判是建设性，但这并不能告诉我们僵局持续多久，或者影响有多。

It's it's it's made life more fun, it's made me more constructive, it's made me more helpful to others, it's made me enormously rich, you name it.

它让生活更有乐趣，让我变得更有建设性，它使我变得更有益于他人，让我变得非常富有，而这无法用天分来解释。

If you would like to offer someone else the opportunity to correct your English or give constructive criticism on your answers, you can start off by saying that feedback is welcomed.

如果你想要给其他人机修改你英语或对你回答给出一些有建设性评价，你可以从说“欢迎反馈”开始。

It's bad enough for an hour, but try 24 hours a day… We're just not constructive that way, we're not getting things done the way we should because we couldn't use our own judgment.

那样一个小时已经够糟糕了，要是再整日整夜，一天24小时都那样… … 以那种式我们根本没法取得建设性成果，我们没有按照我们应该式去做事情，因为我们不能按照我们自己判断。

The mayor says that he has had constructive talks with the government.

市长表示他与首相政府进行了建设性谈。

And today in Brussels, we are taping what I believe are constructive and reasonable proposals, which provide a compromise for both sides.

今天在布鲁塞尔，我们正在提出我认为是建设性和合理建议，这将让双达成妥协。

They'll give you constructive criticism when you're not playing as well as you could be.

而在你没有表现出应有水平时给你提出建设性批评意见。

We just have to learn to channel them into something constructive.

我们只是要学把它们传变成别有用东西。

Too often, people just try to persuade others of their case but if you show that you're open to listening to the other person and genuinely want to understand where they're coming from, you'll have a much more constructive conversation.

很多时候，人们只是试图说服别人相信自己观点，但如果你表明你愿意倾听对意见，并真诚想了解他们想法，你们对话就更有建设性。

That led to both constructive habits, including making an effort to spend more time with the other person, as well as some that were destructive, like unleashing frequent criticisms.

这既产生一些建设性习惯，包括努力花更多时间和对在一起，也产生一些破坏性习惯，比如频繁批评对。