So much of what we've been talking about here, you know, comes down to the problem of egocentrism.

们在这里讨论很多内容，你道，归根结底是自问题。

The knowledge that one's sufferings are shared adds an important perspective to the egocentrism of youth.

了解到自痛苦被他人分担，为年轻人自视角增添了重要维度。

It is in this sense that cooperation and egocentrism are complementary notions, both of which should be born in mind when we discuss conversation.

言之，自论，从自角度、根据自识、按照自语境看问题倾向，是一种无意识、直觉反应，因而不可避免。这样界定话，自论是对交际一个方面客观描述，没有任何只为自谋利负面涵义。或者，们也可以这样说，会话参与者虽然都愿意为交流信息而合作，却可能对特定语境下“合作”有不同判断。在这个意义上，合作和自论是互补，讨论会话时两者都要考虑。