Your columnist investigates As summer descends with a vengeance on the northern hemisphere, you may be fantasising about the promise of " working from anywhere" .
Meanwhile, the former is a high-wire act in which we fantasise generating an income from what we deeply love and yet we constantly fear penury and humiliation.
We fantasise about the death of a loved one not because we truly want them gone but because being close to them is such a large and therefore at times tricky part of our lives.
Now it's not immoral but we might fantasise about things that we'd never have-- we'd never dream of doing in real life and so pornography tends to fill that void.