If you're dating someone who's insecurely attached, it's not necessarily the end of the world, You know, they're not going to change anytime soon if they change at all.
The remaining third or so of kids are insecurely attached, meaning that they're skittish in new environments even when their parent or caregiver is there.
And researchers found that insecurely attached kids, when they saw a video of a reunion of a caregiver and infant acting in a way that felt loving and stable, they looked longer as though that was surprising.