Not only is likability related to positive life outcomes, but it is also responsible for those outcomes, too.

受人喜爱程度不仅和积极人生结果相关，甚至就是这些结果原因。

Or are you doing this for likability and status points?

还是你这么做是为了讨人喜欢、提升地位？

But what you can do if you suddenly mimic your date is actually increased empathy, likability, and your attractiveness to your date.

但如果你突然模仿你约会，你所能做实际上是增加你同理心、可爱度和你约会吸引力。

While there are some things you can do to improve yourself and your likability, there are other parts of you that you just have to accept.

虽然你可以做一些事情来提高自己和你亲和力，但你必须接受你其他部分。

They found early attention skills were the most consistent predictor of academic success, and that likability also had a modest effect on academic performance.

他们发，早期注意力技能是学业成功最稳定预测因素，而在同龄人中受欢迎程度学业表有轻微影响。

Respect and likability are not the same thing.

尊重和亲和力是两码事。

In fact, vulnerability is one of the fastest ways to show likability.

事实上，展脆弱是迅速赢得好感捷径之一。

So I think really, in mentally thinking, focus on respect over likability.

所以我认为，在心理上思考时，应该注重尊重而非讨人喜欢。

And when I think about likability, sometimes we can overthink this.

而当我思考亲和力时，有时我们可能会过度分析。

He did have this, like, this charm and this likability.

他确实有种魅力和讨人喜欢地方。

And Maggie, was it on your mind at all, that quote-unquote likability?

还有玛吉，你有没有想过所谓“讨人喜欢”这个问题？

Lou has another trait that is more traditionally associated with likability.

卢还有另一个传统上与讨人喜欢相关特质。

But certainly like policy aside, she has this combination of charisma, likability to some, but also something about her personality that angers the people who don't like her in a way that only fuels her sort of presence.

但当然，就像抛开政策不谈一样，她既有魅力，又受某些人喜爱，但她个性激怒了那些不喜欢她人，这只会助长她存在。

Usually a character's proximity to whiteness, whether that be through them having fairer skin, a white parent, partner or friend, often increases their social standing, presumed likability and success, further constructing and upholding racist perceptions.

通常一个角色接近“白人”程度，无论是通过拥有更浅肤色，有一个白人父母、伴侣或朋友，都会提高他们社会地位、受欢迎程度和成功机会，进一步构建和维持种族偏见。

So he would borrow a book, he'd read the book, and then he'd return it promptly and on time and in good order, and then immediately, the likability factor, it broke down all that dislike.

于是他会借一本书，阅读它，然后准时、完好无损地归还，紧接着，那种讨人喜欢特质立刻就消除了所有不满。

Not much, but there is an interesting study that I found and basically it looked at how facial filters on dating apps affect like your likability or your success on the app.

没什么特别，但我发了一项有趣研究。基本上，它探讨了约会应用中面部滤镜如何影响用户好感度或在该应用上成功率。

However, after reading a study conducted by two of her colleagues about how competence in men correlated with likability, the American psychologist turned to issues relating to gender.

然而， 在阅读了两位同事关于男性能力与受欢迎程度之间关系研究后，这位美国心理学家将注意力转向了性别相关议题。

But now that I'm doing a lot of other work, especially in screenwriting, that issue of likability does come up quite a bit, I have to admit.

但是在我做了很多其他工作，特别是编剧， 这个问题确实经常出，我不得不承认。

So likability is a desirable trait or a positive trait, but pecking order is more like, who can I push around when I'm young?

所以， 受欢迎是一种令人向往特质或积极特质，但等排序更像是， 我年轻时谁能被我欺负？

For many, this can be read as overly planned and emotionless, which experts say is a key reason she ranks low in likability.

于许多人来说，这可以被解读为过度计划和冷漠，专家说这是她受欢迎程度低一个关键原因。