Those who use self-defeating humor, making fun of themselves for the enjoyment of others, tend to maintain that hostility toward themselves even when alone.
But I also want nerdy Asian men to feel that they are worthy of love, and the problem is of when you make fun of them in the secondary role where you don't explore their whole lives.
Once Jesus was up on the cross, the sun stopped shining for three whole hours in the middle of the day, but those soldiers kept right on making fun of Him.
He was down in the pub the other week with some colleagues, two of them were Irish and then Alan starts telling an Irish joke, making fun of the Irish!
When a kid says something like " I'm so burrito-pilled, " they're not saying that because they're black-pilled but because the underlying idea is making fun of how incels talk.