Affirm your selfhood, give you a sense of identity, belonging.

表明自我，给一种身份感、归属感。

And most importantly, you'll feel othered, which may lead you to look for safety in those who are like-minded to do what they have been doing for you - affirm your selfhood, give you a sense of identity, belonging.

最重，会感到与众，这可能会导致在那些志道合人身上寻找安全感，去做他们一直在为做事情——肯定自我，给一种认感和归属感。

Daniella wants to know, " Could you explain how memory is involved in this perception of a self? " AS: Just as there are many different aspects of selfhood, there are many different kinds of memory, too.

丹妮拉想知道，“能解释一下记忆如何参与这种自我感知吗？” AS：正如自我有很方面一样，记忆也有很种类。

You worry for your physical identity and limit the extent of your perceptions for fear you cannot handle more and retain your selfhood.

担心身体身份并限制感知范围，因为害怕无法处理更并保持自我。

And this suggests that our ''identity'' is located not in the impulse of selfhood but in deliberately maintained connections.

这意味着我们“身份”建立在自我冲动行事基础上而存在于与他人刻意维持联系之中。

Instead of being about the external world, experiences of selfhood are fundamentally about regulating and controlling the body.

自我体验从根本上讲关于调节和控制身体，而关于外部世界。

Now this experience of selfhood is so mundane that its appearance, usually, just happens without us noticing at all.

现在，这种自我体验如此平凡，以至于它出现通常只在我们完全没有注意到情况下发生。