But it had always been a struggle to teach Scarlett that most of her natural impulses were unladylike.

开导思嘉，指出那感情用事的做法大都有违上流衬会的风习，那就会引起一场争斗。

Why were most big things unladylike?

为什么大多数大事都不像淑女？

Most unladylike, and all that, but Oh, Lord, there's reason enough for it!

最不淑女，所有这些，但哦，主啊，有足够的理由这样做！

" Not tetchy, mamma: you never hear me speak in an unladylike way" .

“不脾暴躁，妈妈：你从来没有听过我说话有失淑女风范”。

Feminist psychologists like Joan Chrisler have suggested that taking on the label of PMS allows women to express emotions that would otherwise be considered unladylike.

像琼·克莱斯勒这样的女权主义心理学家曾经提出，贴上了经前综合征的标签后以让女性有借口表现出一些情绪， 而这些情绪往往被认为不够淑女的。

She turned her head away so that he shouldn't see, and in a manner that Elliott would certainly have thought very unladylike put out her tongue at me.

过头不让他看见，并且以一种让 Elliott 肯定会认为非常不淑女的方式向我吐了吐舌头。

They were so lately come from nothing and so uncertain of themselves they were doubly anxious to appear refined and feared to show their temper or make retorts in kind, lest they be considered unladylike.

们因没有根基，对自己也没有信心，因此特别希望显得文雅，不敢发火，也不敢顶嘴，生怕人家说没有女士的风度。

He felt there was something unbecoming about a woman understanding fractions and business matters and he believed that, should a woman be so unfortunate as to have such unladylike comprehension, she should pretend not to.

觉得一个女人懂得分数和生意这灯事情有失体面的，而且觉得如果不幸生来就有这样一种不符合贵妇人身份的理解能力，就应该装出不懂的样子。