" I wonder, " said Elizabeth, " that the very pride of Mr. Darcy has not made him just to you! If from no better motive, that he should not have been too proud to be dishonest -- for dishonesty I must call it. "
Yeah, I think you're doing yourself a disservice if you force yourself to finish everything just so you can say that you did, when ultimately your opinion in the end was gonna be the exact same thing, that it sucks.
But any kind of big changes in calories or what you're eating, anything that might look restrictive, that would mean that you would feel hard done by and then you would suddenly feel hungrier than is actually real.
And if you love what you do, and you love that person that gets to do the thing, the main thing that you do, like, why are you treating that person shitty by stealing all their time?
One of the things he says is, look for someone who feels they have been mistreated or unappreciated by enemy leadership, someone who feels their genius is not being made use of by the enemy.
But when it comes to people crossing your boundaries, when it comes to you feeling like you are mistreated by your friends or people are taking advantage of you, that is a freaking choice.