Well, speaking of going out, have you ever used a dating app?

说到玩乐，你用过交友软件？

Online dating scams use this strategy all the time.

网上交友骗局直使用该策略。

I'm an outgoing girl who likes to make friends with people.

我是个喜欢与交友的外向女孩。

But don't forget that making friends is not a numbers game or a competition, don't compare yourself to others.

但也别忘了，交友不是场比赛，所以不需要与他比较。

So the most important principle of making friends is to regularly spend time with people in the real world.

所以交友最重要的原则是有规律地和他在现实世界里共度时光。

" It's more of a modern way of making friends, " Sartori said in an interview with the BBC.

“这是种更现代的交友方式，”萨托里在接受 BBC 采访时表示。

You asked what men tend to lie about in their dating profiles.

你问我男性在交友简介中会倾向于对什么撒谎。

Her study confirmed that comparatively few people who used the app used it to arrange to meet up with someone.

她的研究表明，这个交友软件的用户中很少有会使用这款app场真正的约会。

It impacts the choices in the friends that we make, the jobs we apply for, how we treat our children.

这会影响我们交友的选择、工作申请，还有我们对待孩子的态度。

Some people find them very intelligent and capable of friendship, jealousy and longing.

有些发现他们非常聪明，能够交友、嫉妒和渴望。

[Interviewer] What are your thoughts on dating apps?

- [采访者] 你对交友软件有什么看法？

To befriend someone is the same as to make friends with someone.

与某交友，就等同于与某成为朋友。

Yeah okay so talking about dating this a friend.

好吧，所以我们在谈论交友这件事。

This would be good on a dating app, no?

这要是放在交友软件上还挺合适的，对吧？

Haha, a dating app, I'm so relatable.

哈哈，个交友软件， 我很亲切。

But it's a way to beat the online dating game.

但这是种在网络交友游戏中取胜的方法。

And that's how you beat online dating.

那就是你如何战胜网上交友。

Dude, I use, I don't know if you guys have used this before, Bumble BFF.

哥们儿，我用过，不知道你们之前用过没有，就是Bumble BFF这个交友软件。

So the dating pool was pretty limited.

所以交友范围相当有限。

Let's say you're another developer who's building a college dating app.

假设你是位正在开发大学交友应用的开发者。