Marxist moment in every relationship, a moment when it becomes clear that love is going to be reciprocated; that we won’t simply admire someone from afar without hope of mutuality.
We sometimes describe a person with great intelligence or amazing abilities as 'our hero' - a musician maybe or an athlete. It's someone we admire and look up to.
And I see how youth in the camp look up to me and how my parents and siblings ooze with pride with the opportunities I have been given, which makes me feel proud.