Yeah, there was another thing that I read as well about telling, praising children for their intellgence, you should never, you should never tell a child they're smart because they get a false image of what intelligence is.
我还看了一篇有关表扬孩子智商的文章,那篇文章的观点是永远不要告诉孩子他们很聪明,因为那会让他们对智商产生假象。