'Very well. Will you help me? If we are wrong, I'll make sure that you're not blamed for it.'

“很好。那么你愿意帮助我吗？万一弄错，我不会让你责备的。”

They had brawled over who was to blame.

他们为谁该责备而吵架。

20 Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his deeds will be exposed.

20 凡作恶的便恨光、并不来就光、恐怕他的行为责备。

But everything exposed by the light becomes visible—and everything that is illuminated becomes a light.

凡事责备，就被光显明出来，因为一切能显明的就是光。

Correspondents say it's rare for Afghan rape victims to get justice because rape has long been treated as adultery, partially blaming the victim.

记者称在阿富汗强奸一直被认为是通奸，害者责备，所以强奸害者很难得到公正。

It was worse than any reproach, and it made me ashamed to deserve a reproach from her.

这比任何责备都糟糕， 让我觉得她的责备感到羞愧。

But later, he was fired, and when he found out that I was the one to blame, he didn't want to be my dad any more.

但后来 他被解雇 当他发现我才是该责备的人时 他不想再做我爸爸。

But if the parent is more punitive, the picture grows darker: approval is always uncertain, there is a constant fear of being called arrogant or of being upbraided for something one hadn't thought about.

但如果其父母更为苛刻，那么孩子的内心会更消沉，无法确定自己是否被认可，不是在担心会被责怪太过傲慢，就是在担心会因为自己没有想到的事情而责备。