It is just as the media has cultivated the fault finding. We can cultivate the benefit finding.

正如媒体培我们成为消极者一样，我们可以把自己培成积极者。

Then why not go after the gardener who grew 'em?

那为什么不挑他们的培者呢？

And we got conditioned into giving.

我们被培成了给予者。

Unless the brood parasite kills all of the host's young, it may be best to simply foster the imposter.

除非寄生虫杀死了宿主的所有幼崽，否则最简单地培冒名顶替者。

Whereas those who are generous, it's not about the self-sacrifice, it's about giving in ways that nurture more givers.

那些乐于助人的人， 这并不是关于自我牺牲，是以培多给予者的方式去给予。

However, they must be taught the right attitudes and approaches to their learning and develop the attributes of high performers ?

但是，必须教他们正确的习态度和方法，并培高绩效者的特质。

Making it exciting to buy books, to make better and better communicators on Twitter, through books, through op-eds, through podcasts, through so on.

让买书变得激动人心，通过书籍、专栏文章、播客等各种方式培的沟通者。

It is really important that you know your coaches and that your coaches are great teachers, great developers, if you're going to subscribe to that theory.

了解你的教练并确保他们都是出色的教师和培者，这一点至关重要，如果你认同这种理念的话。

And that's been very influential, this idea that music is a cultivator of different forms of attention, not all of them an attention that is spent on the music.

这一观点影响深远，即音乐是不同形式注意力的培者，并非所有注意力都集中在音乐本身。

In order for vacillators to cultivate healthy stable relationships, they need to learn how to pace themselves and get to know someone before committing to soon and getting hurt by their own expectations.

若想要敏感者培健康稳定的人际关系，他们就需要会调整自己，在做出承诺并因对自己的期望受伤之前先了解对方。