But I did work very hard. I just failed examinations again and again.

但是我的确很努力，尽管我不停地考试失败。

But what does it mean to fail mindfully?

但是，有意识地失败意味着什么呢？

So why exactly do we go all in on lost causes?

那我们为什么要全力以赴地追查失败的原因呢？

Why did Franz Josef so singularly fail both his heirs?

为什么弗朗茨·约瑟夫的两个继承人都莫名其妙地失败了？

He knows it's effective for her to get practice, fail, and courageously try again.

他知道练习、失败、勇敢地再次尝试对来说有效果。

But for years they failed, again and again.

但多年来，他们一次又一次地失败。

Not that my education was a complete failure.

我并不是说我所受的教育彻底地失败了。

He tried to control the eagerness in his voice and failed miserably.

他想要控制语气中的热切，却凄惨地失败。

And yet they manage to make multi million dollar flops all the time anyway.

然而，无论如何，他们总是能功地失败，百万损失。

You have to actually see failure.

你必须真正地看到失败。

It's because they know they'll lose again and again, and have learned how to deal with it.

而是因为他们知道他们会一次又一次地失败，并且已经学会了如何应对。

I failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed.

“我一次一次又一次地失败，最后就了我的功。”

And I want to propose a new mantra: fail mindfully.

有意识地失败。

For what is at best a story about gracefully accepting defeat, or about learning some lesson in humility?

因为一个关于优雅地接受失败的故事，或者关于在谦卑中吸取教训的故事，最好应该是什么样的呢？

In the past decade, a wealth of psychological research has shown that most people struggle to handle failure constructively.

在过去的十年里，大量的心理学研究表明，大多人都没法建设性地处理失败。

We tried every trick in the book and failed over and over again.

我们尝试了书中的所有技巧，但一次又一次地失败了。

So aspects of all infrastructure fail more frequently.

因此， 所有基础设施的各个方面都更频繁地失败。

No, I just slowly like to fail and suffer.

- 不，我只是慢慢地喜欢失败和受苦。

This was years and years of failing over and over and over and over again.

这是一年又一年地反复失败。

" To go down in flames" means to fail very badly and often very quickly.

“灰飞烟灭”意味着彻底失败，而且通常是很快地失败。