" I think Dumbledore might have hoped I would be able to exercise some control over my best friends, " said Lupin, " I need scarcely say that I failed dismally."

“我想，邓布利多大概希望我能对我的好朋友进行一些管束。”卢平说，“不用说，我很悲惨地失败了。”

So why exactly do we go all in on lost causes?

那我们为什么要全力以赴地追查失败的原因呢？

But I did work very hard. I just failed examinations again and again.

但是我的确很努力，尽管我不停地考试失败。

But what does it mean to fail mindfully?

但是，有意识地失败意味着什么呢？

Why did Franz Josef so singularly fail both his heirs?

为什么弗朗茨·约瑟夫的两个继承人都莫名其妙地失败了？

But for years they failed, again and again.

但多来，他们一次又一次地失败。

Not that my education was a complete failure.

我并不是说我所受的教育彻底地失败了。

He tried to control the eagerness in his voice and failed miserably.

他想要控制语气中的，凄惨地失败。

And yet they manage to make multi million dollar flops all the time anyway.

然而，无论如何，他们总是能成功地失败，造成数百万损失。

To sort of fail boldly and find that thin ice to be on is sort of the best thing you can give yourself as an actor.

勇敢地经历失败，找到那个恰好得当的表演状态是作为一名演员你能给自己的最好的东西。

Then take away your hands and silently put up with your defeat, my heart, and think it your good fortune to sit perfectly still where you are placed.

那就把手拿开，静默地承认失败罢，我的心呵，要想到能在你的岗位上默坐，还算是幸运的。

They said a defeat in the Brown case would greatly damage the cause of civil rights. They told him to wait, to move more carefully and slowly.

他们说，布朗案的失败将极大地损害民权事业。他们叫他等一等，走得更小心、更慢些。

So I would argue that you need to put yourself in situations where you fail in order to learn lessons and move past them faster.

我想说的是，大家需要将自己置于你会失败的情境中，这样才能从中学习，并迅速地从失败中脱身而出。

The scientist tries to prove themselves wrong, not right when they continually fail to do so, it's very likely that only the truth remains.

科学家试图证明自己是错的，而不是对的，当他们不断地失败时，很可能只有真理留下。

I would never possess my brother's effortless confidence, but I could challenge the notion that I was constantly headed for failure.

我绝不会像我弟弟那样即便不付出什么努力也能拥有自信，但我可以试着克服" 自己正不断地滑向失败" 的想法。

In the past decade, a wealth of psychological research has shown that most people struggle to handle failure constructively.

在过去的十里，大量的心理学研究表明，大多数人都没法建设性地处理失败。

It's because they know they'll lose again and again, and have learned how to deal with it.

而是因为他们知道他们会一次又一次地失败，并且已经学会了如何应对。

You have to actually see failure.

你必须真正地看到失败。

For what is at best a story about gracefully accepting defeat, or about learning some lesson in humility?

因为一个关于优雅地接受失败的故事，或者关于在谦卑中吸取教训的故事，最好应该是什么样的呢？

I failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed.

“我一次一次又一次地失败，最后成就了我的成功。”