IN THE crowded annals of marital spite, a 2010 divorce in Illinois—involving a Roman Catholic man and a Jewish woman and lavishly covered by the local press—stands out for the irreconcilable nature of its core dispute.

2010年，伊利诺伊州一起离婚案：男方是罗马天主教徒，女方则是一名犹太人。媒体大篇幅报导二人。如果婚姻不和谐可以合成一部编年史，那么这起离婚案算得上是婚姻核心分歧不可调和典范。

Alright, bring it to the same sex marriage case.

好，回到同性婚姻问题上。

A good romantic marriage is evidently theoretically possible, but it's also be extremely unlikely in practice, which should make any failure feel a good deal less shameful.

一个好浪漫婚姻在理论上显然是可能，但在实际生是极不可能，这应该让任何婚姻不顺人不会感到那么羞耻。

STEP 6 Be careful what you wish for. A Sagittarius can be dragged to the altar, and might even find the strength to remain faithful. But they’ll never let you forget what a chore and a bore it is.

谨慎对待自己愿。射手座可以被拖上婚姻殿堂，甚至可以找到保持忠诚力量。但是永远不会让你忘记本性。

They sort of out themselves in marriage or whatever.

在婚姻或其事情上脱离了自我。

And in no area do people lie more than on the question of infidelity.

而且，在对婚姻不忠这个问题上，人撒谎比其它地方撒谎都多。

Jay, Gloria tells me you have kids from your first marriage.

杰 歌洛莉亚说你上一段婚姻有孩子。

You know, for the sake of our marriage please don't mention the system again.

看在我婚姻份上，不要再提这个体系了。

I think the writing is on the wall.I think almost everyone believes that it is just a matter of time before gay couples can marry anywhere in the United States.

我认为这已经是板上钉钉事情。我觉得几乎所有人都相信美国全面承认同性婚姻只是时间上问题。

At the time she was writing, a wealthy marriage was a financial necessity for most young women, and she often explores the tension between the mythical quest for love, and the economic benefits of making a match.

在她写作期间，对于大多数年轻女性来说，富裕婚姻是经济上必需品，她经常探讨对爱情神话般追求，与为了经济利益而组建婚姻之间对立。

So, I know that in some cultures they have arranged marriages, and I think maybe this is Aegeus' mentality as well, is that he can have more control in whom his daughter marries.

因此， 我了解到在某些文化存在包办婚姻，我认为这可能是埃勾斯心态，即能在女儿婚姻对象选择上拥有更多掌控权。

Justice Kennedy seems to be unhappy with the way in which the Defence of Marriage Act intruded upon what is in the US a state-level power-- the regulation of marriage.

肯尼迪法官看来不满意《婚姻捍卫法案》在规范婚姻问题上对美国国家权力侵犯。

I'm a jinx. Look how your last marriage turned out. Come on, Gabby, we both know it'd be weird if I went.

我是厄运。瞧瞧你上一段婚姻是如何收场。拜托，加布，我都知道我去了会很怪。

Spending the next year with her parents in Los Angeles, Amelia put her focus on helping them keep their marriage intact.

第二年，阿梅莉亚和父母在洛杉矶度过，她把重点放在帮助维持婚姻上。

They had actually been carrying on an affair during the last two years of his previous marriage.

威廉姆斯在上一段婚姻最后两年里就和玛西亚勾搭上了。

He sees marriage as being good for society as a whole-it makes society stronger, more stable.

认为婚姻整体上来说对社会有益——它让社会更强大，更稳定。

So when your new husband or your new wife has kids from another marriage.

所以当你新丈夫或新妻子有来自上一段婚姻孩子时。

“There is no greater tragedy than the tragedy of the marital bed”, he wrote.

“没有什么悲剧比婚姻床第上悲剧更大了”，写道。

Marriage is not legally, technically, a marriage until the couple has sexual relations.

婚姻在法律上和技术上，直到夫妻发生性关系才算成立。

I'm still legally married, but I have a new man, same age range.

我虽然仍处于法律上婚姻状态，但已有了新伴侣，年龄相仿。