OK, well let's assume that Sarah and Geoff aren't typical of most families, and consider the serious implications of women doing more of the household chores.
When the ugly sisters get hold of the invites they rip up the one for Cinders telling her that she's ''too common'', she hasn't any fashionable clothes to wear –and anyway, she has far too much housework to do.
Women do things they'd like to do in the home like raise their children but they also are saddled with doing all kinds of chores whether it's cleaning dishes or collecting firewood or going and collecting water.
" We deny our children's bid to help until they are 6 or 7 years old, " Lancy says, " when many have lost the desire to help and then try to motivate them with payment."
Because a couple household materials dropped into the bathtub, and this mundane routine becomes fun and surprisingly energizing bonding time for you and your child.