It may trivialise, demean, irritate or insult women.Research evidence shows that language use affects the ways in which people view themselves and others.
For instance, from a chart indicating that 33 percent of firstborn children in a research sample did not feel close to their fathers, you might assume that some dreadful influence was at work on the firstborn children.
Everyone takes for granted that you just open a letter and you read it. Before I met my wife, I used to have to knock on the neighbour's door: " Could you read this for me? "
As you become more capable of providing yourself with the approval you seek, your need for external validation will start to vanish, leaving you stronger, more confident, and yes, happier in your life.