" Northmour, " I said, " we all know you have a bad temper, and I am the last man to be irritated by words. For all that, I propose that you speak lower, for I am convinced that we are not alone" .
I won't give you examples but you probably can think of lots of names or words that you call other people whom you don't like or whom you want to anger.
Every spare bit of cognitive power is redirected to thinking of devastating put-downs from which the offender will never recover; other tasks can wait.