I don't have to have it constantly together all the time.

我用不着永远冷静自持。

After his embarrassment and his unreasoning joy he was consumed with wonder at her presence.

初局促不安，继而大喜若狂，目前又由于她出现在眼前感到过分惊异而不能自持了。

" With calmness, forbearance, compassion, selflessness, and continence" .

“以静、忍、慈、无私、自持”。

You know what clinched it for me? What?

你知道我为么无法自持吗 为么？

It gave him the utmost composure of a man who had seen the worst and to whom there were no further terrors.

这使和那些经历过大难而无所谓的人一样，有了极高的自持力。

And he was in Northern Ireland this week, too, whipping up support there, notably from a sceptical DUP.

本周也在北爱尔兰，在那里激了支持， 特自持怀疑态度的DUP。

And that was last year, and officials were just elated and practically giddy in their press conferences as they told us about the spectacular arrest in this manhunt.

去年被捕以后，官员召开新闻发布宣布被捕时高兴得难以自持。

In a wiser society, we’d study arguments at school for at least four years (they’re as complicated as algebra and more important) and we’d all get a lot better at confessing our wounds in a tone of self-possessed dignity.

在一个更明智的社会中，我们会在学校学习至少四年的论证（它们和代数一样复杂， 而且更重要）， 我们都会更好地以一种自持的尊严的语气承认我们的伤痛.