Alright, when this is a regular part of your relationship, when someone is giving you these backhanded compliments or they're sneering when they should be congratulating you, it can become a form of emotional abuse.
当这种情况成为你关系中的常态,即当有人向你投以这些
由衷的赞美, 或在他们本应祝贺你时却露出讥
之色,这便可能演变为一种情感虐待。