Living together before marriage is still rare, although that is changing among educated youngsters.

婚前同居试婚仍旧罕见，尽管一些受过教育的年轻这一趋势日益改变。

Inca couples, for example, started with a trial partnership, during which a man could send his partner home.

例如，印加夫妇从试婚开始，此期间，男可以送他的伴侣回家。

It's those who are not dating the idea, but married to the reality that they are the only option.

不是试婚这个想法，而是已经嫁给这一个现实：他们就是唯一的选择。

Before we make any kind of decision bout where we live, we have a trial run. Stay here for a weekend, see what it's like.

咱俩最终决定要住哪之前 咱们先试婚一下 这住上一个周末 看看情况如何。

Because I had a colleague in New Jersey years ago who worked exclusively with the couples and she talked about starter marriages.

因为很多年前我西有一个同事，她专门从事夫妻咨询工作，她提到过试婚这种概念。

When their friends asked why their trial marriage had not worked out, they both said, we found out we are way too different from each other.

他们的朋友问为什么他们的试婚没有成功时，他们俩都说，我们发现自己彼此差异太大。

Moving in with your person and exploring certain things that are new to you guys, versus like, you know, going through the trial run and you may never get there.

- 与你的伴侣同居，探索对你们来说全的领域，这与你所知的经历试婚阶段、却可能永远无法真正实现的情况截然不同。