Living together before marriage is still rare, although that is changing among educated youngsters.

婚前同居试婚仍旧罕见，尽管在一些受过教育年轻人当中这一趋势日益改变。

Before we make any kind of decision bout where we live, we have a trial run. Stay here for a weekend, see what it's like.

在咱俩最终决定要住哪之前 咱们先试婚一下 在这住上一个周末 看看情况如。

Moving in with your person and exploring certain things that are new to you guys, versus like, you know, going through the trial run and you may never get there.

- 与你伴同居，探索对你们来说全域，这与你所知经历试婚阶段、却可能永远无法真正实现情况截然不同。

When their friends asked why their trial marriage had not worked out, they both said, we found out we are way too different from each other.

当他们朋友问为什么他们试婚没有成功时，他们俩都说，我们发现自己彼此差异太大。

Because I had a colleague in New Jersey years ago who worked exclusively with the couples and she talked about starter marriages.

因为很多年前我在泽西有一个同事，她专门从事夫妻咨询工作，她提到过试婚这种概念。

It's those who are not dating the idea, but married to the reality that they are the only option.

不是在试婚这个想法，而是已经嫁给这样一个现实：他们就是唯一选择。

Inca couples, for example, started with a trial partnership, during which a man could send his partner home.

例如，印加夫妇从试婚开始，在此期间，男人可以送他伴回家。