Our partner's inability to know all this — fast and decisively — necessarily feels like an intimate insult and the complex task of explaining our thoughts and attitudes like an unreasonable imposition.
我们的伴侣无法快速果断地知道这一切,这必然会让人觉得是一种亲密的侮辱,而解释我们的想法和态度的复杂任务,就像一种不理的过分要求。