For example, an extroverted person would probably be valued more in a job that deals with people; a disagreeable person may be valued more in a competitive environment.

例如，外向人在与人打工作中可能更受重视；一个难相人可能在竞争环境中更受重视。

Yes, Jobs is brilliant but he's also notoriously difficult.

乔布斯是很聪明，但也出了名难相。

Agathon says the god of love has nothing to do with ugly, hard, old people.

阿伽通说爱神跟又老又丑又难相人沾不上边。

Many strange and difficult people also live in that building.

许多陌生且很难相人也住在那幢楼里。

He says he feels sorry for even this difficult neighbor.

他说，即便对这位难相邻居，他也感到抱歉。

What if you are the difficult person, like how do you figure that out and what do you do about it?

如果你是那个难相人，你是怎么发现，你会怎么做？

Holmes was certainly not a difficult man to live with. He was quiet in his ways, and his habits were regular.

说实在，福尔摩斯并不是一个难与相人。他为人沉静，生活习惯很有规律。

That leaves teachers who deal with difficult children less time for the rest of their students who behave better, Simpson said.

辛普森说，这使得与难相子打老师花在其他表现较好学生身上时间更少。

I decide to not bite the hand that feeds me and put up with the difficult client.

我决定不忘恩负义，容忍那个难相客户。

He was called Master Sho. And he had a reputation for being a very very difficult master.

他被称为舒大师。他是出了名难相大师。

To the same token, almost half of the people that are beautiful to you, are mean.

同样地，会有近半数优菜是你觉得好看、但难相。

Sam says that one of his neighbors is a difficult person.

山姆说他一个邻居是个难相人。

So in a world where we are increasingly trying to not label people, can we really pinpoint certain individuals as being " difficult" ?

因此，在一个我们越来越多地试图不给人贴上标签世界里，我们真能准确地指出某些人是“难相”吗？

But, it's not easy to be nice to difficult people.

但对难相人友善并不容易。

And I think that's the kind of attitude you need to have with your difficult colleagues is, think about yes, this may seem inappropriate.

我认为这就是你需要对你难相同事采取态度，想想吧，是，这可能看起来不合适。

Now, Julie wants to know if this difficult neighbor complains about Sam.

现在，朱莉想知这位难相邻居是否抱怨过萨姆。

And think back on your reviews, think back on the feedback you've gotten, does it all add up to some of this difficult behavior?

回想一下你评论，回想一下你得到反馈，所有都导致了这种难相行为吗？

You are not a difficult coworker. You're one of my favorites.

你不是一个难相同事。你是我最爱之一。

So if Sam is nice to this difficult neighbor, Maybe in time, the difficult neighbor will be nice to him.

所以， 如果萨姆对这位难相邻居友善，也许假以时日， 那位难相邻居也会对他友善起来。

We've all been that difficult person on the team or in an interaction.

无论是在团队中还是在互动中，我们都是那个难相人。