I don't mean just go through the motions, I mean sincerely try to imagine how somebody who believes differently than you, but someone who you respect could accept this idea, and try to convince yourself of it.
我不是说装模作样,我是说真诚地试着想象有一个和你有不同想法
人,但是一个你尊重
人,他是怎么能够接受这个想法
,然后试着说服你自己也去接受。