She had been raised in the bedroom of Solange Robillard, Ellen O'Hara's mother, a dainty, cold, high-nosed French-woman, who spared neither her children nor her servants their just punishment for any infringement of decorum.
And just because you can see, can't you, that it looks nothing, nothing whatsoever like an old master, that it leaps from the decorum of the gallery wall into some other world of eloquence.
As in any break-up, the one with an employer involves dealing with elusive concepts such as decorum (" It's not you, it's me" ) or closure (" Thank you for everything" ).