And often if you depersonalize the thing, it becomes a lot easier to be like, oh, okay, well, in that world, that person would probably feel really scared of what other people think of them.

通常当你把事情“去个”之后，就更容易说：哦，好吧，在那个情境下，那个能会很害怕别怎么想他。

Um... I mean, yeah, I mean, it's... it's... It's the sort of a, I don't know, throughout this whole process you get used to depersonalizing yourself as, you know, about to listen to stuff that no brother should have to listen to.

嗯...是说，是的，这...这...在整个过程中，你会习惯于把自己，你知道的，准备好去听那些不该让任何兄弟承受的事情。

And I think once you focus on that fairness element, but also grounding the negotiation in objective reality, it depersonalizes some of the hard decisions that need to be made.

认为， 一旦你专注于公平这一要素，同时谈判建立在客观现实的基础上，就会使一些需要做出的艰难决策变得不那么个。

No, you can't, well, I could have walked away at any point with, I call him Mr. Fox, because it sort of depersonalizes him.

不，你不能，嗯，以在任何时候离开，称他为“狐狸先生” ，因为这有点去格。

And so as I said before, like Blanchot is someone who innovates this like depersonalized, indirect ventriloquism style of philosophy.

正如之前所言，布兰肖便是这种创新性的、去个性的、间接的腹语式哲学风格的代表物。

And the best way for you to help that child is to depersonalize yourself from it and make yourself available.

而帮助孩子的最好方式就是自己从个情感中抽离出来，并让自己变得依靠。

And that changes the way you see them, and it's very easy to depersonalize somebody when you just write that.

这改变了你对他们的看法，当你只是写下这些时， 很容易某格。

This was also true if the victim was depersonalized, or placed at a distance such as in another room.

如果受害被格解体，或被放置在远处，例如另一个房间，情况也是如此。

I think that that experience made me realize how often in politics we tend to depersonalize our opponents.

认为那次经历让意识到在政治中们常常会贬低对手的个性。

So trying to kind of understand from that more logic-based place can help us depersonalize it.

所以试着从一个更基于逻辑的角度去理解，以帮助们客观看待它。

The habits of pornography and depersonalized sex build on the genetically programmed attraction of images and activities related to reproduction.

色情和个性性行为的习惯建立在与繁殖相关的图像和活动的基因程序吸引之上。

The problem, you know, maybe I could depersonalize it, but like, I remember having lunch with Elon.

这个问题，你知道，也许以把它客观一点，但就像，记得和埃隆一起吃过午饭。