When it comes to our countries, our communities, and our families, we understand instinctively that the stories we hold in common are an important part of the ties that bind.
We're good at remembering faces, we instinctively remember what song was playing during our first kiss, and we can effortlessly walk a few blocks to the store and get back to our house without even having to think about it.
Fremen are able to use Maker Hooks to steer a sandworm by hooking into gaps in the sandworm's plating, forcing the creatures to instinctively move in the opposite direction.
Now, I knew instinctively this is true because I've seen how productive friction can really get us places, how mistakes and debate actually brings people into the conversation.