Or are you doing this for likability and status points?

还你这么做为了讨人喜欢、提升地位？

Not only is likability related to positive life outcomes, but it is also responsible for those outcomes, too.

受人喜爱的程度不仅和积极的人生结果相关，甚这些结果的原因。

Clearly, leadership and likability should not be mutually exclusive for women or for men.

显然，领导力和讨人喜欢女性或男性来说不应相互排斥。

Taniya, did you ever struggle with the respect versus likability thing?

塔尼娅，你否曾在尊重与讨人喜欢的问题上挣扎过？

Respect and likability are not the same thing.

尊重和讨人喜欢不一回事。

Lou has another trait that is more traditionally associated with likability.

卢还有另一个传统上与讨人喜欢相关的特质。

I think there's just a likability factor that is going to come into focus.

我认为只有一个可爱的因素才会成为人们关注的焦点。

That's why your likability numbers are down.

所以喜欢你的人数在下降。

So, for example, a part of likability is to be very empathic, right?

所以，例如，讨人喜欢的一部分要非常有同理心， ？

And forget about likability, ladies, women, if you can.

如果可以的话，女士们，女士们，忘掉讨人喜欢。

Leading with likability is just going to get you in trouble.

以讨人喜欢的方式领导只会给你带来麻烦。

But what you can do if you suddenly mimic your date is actually increased empathy, likability, and your attractiveness to your date.

但如果你突然模仿你的约会象，你所能做的实际上增加你的同理心、可爱度和你约会象的吸引力。

You don't have to work against it with likability.

你不必以可爱的态度来抗它。

So if there's any sort of likability or any sort of apology in anything you say, the movie doesn't work.

因此，如果您说的任何话中有任何讨人喜欢或道歉的意思，那么这部电影没有用。

It comes from, I don't want people… I think it comes back to likability.

它来自于，我不想要人… … 我认为这又回到了讨人喜欢的问题。

They found early attention skills were the most consistent predictor of academic success, and that likability also had a modest effect on academic performance.

他们发现，早期注意力技能学业成功最稳定的预测因素，而在同龄人中受欢迎的程度学业表现也有轻微的影响。

When you're navigating those relationships, I think there's two principles, respect over likability, and equity and fairness are premier.

当你处理这些关系时，我认为有两个原则：尊重胜于讨人喜欢，公平和公正首要原则。

Well, and it's a perfect example, Kelsey, of prioritizing likability over respect.

凯尔西，这一个完美的例子，将可爱性置于尊重之上。

So it's no wonder that in the United States, female politicians suffer greatly, as our elections tend to value likability over competency.

因此，难怪在美国，女性政治家会遭受很大的痛苦，因为我们的选举往往更看重否讨人喜欢而不能力。

They feel as if something is wrong, and this hinders your overall likability.

他们会觉得什么东西出了问题，这会影响你的整体受欢迎程度。