Not only is likability related to positive life outcomes, but it is also responsible for those outcomes, too.

受人喜爱的程度不仅和积极的人生结果相关，甚至就是这些结果的原因。

Respect and likability are not the same thing.

尊重和讨人喜欢不是回事。

And forget about likability, ladies, women, if you can.

如果可以的话，女士们，女士们，忘掉讨人喜欢吧。

Lou has another trait that is more traditionally associated with likability.

卢还有另个传统上与讨人喜欢相关的特。

That's why your likability numbers are down.

所以喜欢你的人数在下降。

While likability can lead to healthy adjustments, high status has the opposite effect.

虽然讨人喜欢可以带来健康的调整，高地位会产生相反的效果。

You don't have to work against it with likability.

你不必以可爱的态度来对抗它。

I think there's just a likability factor that is going to come into focus.

我认为有个可爱的因素才会成为人们关注的焦点。

They feel as if something is wrong, and this hinders your overall likability.

他们会觉得什么东西出了问题，这会影响你的整体受欢迎程度。

Clearly, leadership and likability should not be mutually exclusive for women or for men.

显然，领导力和讨人喜欢对女性或男性来说不应相互排斥。

Taniya, did you ever struggle with the respect versus likability thing?

塔尼娅，你是否曾在尊重与讨人喜欢的问题上挣扎过？

But what you can do if you suddenly mimic your date is actually increased empathy, likability, and your attractiveness to your date.

如果你突然模仿你的约会对象，你所能做的实际上是增加你的同理心、可爱度和你对约会对象的吸引力。

Leading with likability is just going to get you in trouble.

以讨人喜欢的方式领导会给你带来麻烦。

So if there's any sort of likability or any sort of apology in anything you say, the movie doesn't work.

因此，如果您说的任何话中有任何讨人喜欢或道歉的意思，那么这部电影就没有用。

It comes from, I don't want people… I think it comes back to likability.

它来自于，我不想要人… … 我认为这又回到了讨人喜欢的问题。

Well, and it's a perfect example, Kelsey, of prioritizing likability over respect.

凯尔西，这是个完美的例子，将可爱性置于尊重之上。

They found early attention skills were the most consistent predictor of academic success, and that likability also had a modest effect on academic performance.

他们发现，早期注意力技能是学业成功最稳定的预测因素，而在同龄人中受欢迎的程度对学业表现也有轻微的影响。

So it's no wonder that in the United States, female politicians suffer greatly, as our elections tend to value likability over competency.

因此，难怪在美国，女性政治家会遭受很大的痛苦，因为我们的选举往往更看重是否讨人喜欢而不是能力。

When you're navigating those relationships, I think there's two principles, respect over likability, and equity and fairness are premier.

当你处理这些关系时，我认为有两个原则：尊重胜于讨人喜欢，公平和公正是首要原则。

For many, this can be read as overly planned and emotionless, which experts say is a key reason she ranks low in likability.

对于许多人来说，这可以被解读为过度计划和冷漠，专家说这是她受欢迎程度低的个关键原因。