Not only is likability related to positive life outcomes, but it is also responsible for those outcomes, too.

受人喜爱程度不仅和积极人生结果相关，甚至就是些结果原因。

Respect and likability are not the same thing.

尊重和讨人喜欢不是一回事。

And forget about likability, ladies, women, if you can.

如果可，女士们，女士们，忘掉讨人喜欢吧。

Lou has another trait that is more traditionally associated with likability.

卢还有另一个传统上与讨人喜欢相关特质。

That's why your likability numbers are down.

所喜欢你人数在下降。

While likability can lead to healthy adjustments, high status has the opposite effect.

虽然讨人喜欢可带来健康调整，高地位会产生相反效果。

You don't have to work against it with likability.

你不必可爱态度来对抗它。

I think there's just a likability factor that is going to come into focus.

我认为只有一个可爱因素才会成为人们关注焦点。

They feel as if something is wrong, and this hinders your overall likability.

他们会觉得什么东西出了，会影响你整体受欢迎程度。

Clearly, leadership and likability should not be mutually exclusive for women or for men.

显然，领导力和讨人喜欢对女性或男性来说不应相互排斥。

Taniya, did you ever struggle with the respect versus likability thing?

塔尼娅，你是否曾在尊重与讨人喜欢上挣扎过？

But what you can do if you suddenly mimic your date is actually increased empathy, likability, and your attractiveness to your date.

如果你突然模仿你约会对象，你所能做实际上是增加你同理心、可爱度和你对约会对象吸引力。

Leading with likability is just going to get you in trouble.

讨人喜欢方式领导只会给你带来麻烦。

So if there's any sort of likability or any sort of apology in anything you say, the movie doesn't work.

因此，如果您说任何中有任何讨人喜欢或道歉意思，那么部电影就没有用。

It comes from, I don't want people… I think it comes back to likability.

它来自于，我不想要人… … 我认为又回到了讨人喜欢。

Well, and it's a perfect example, Kelsey, of prioritizing likability over respect.

凯尔西，是一个完美例子，将可爱性置于尊重之上。

They found early attention skills were the most consistent predictor of academic success, and that likability also had a modest effect on academic performance.

他们发现，早期注意力技能是学业成功最稳定预测因素，而在同龄人中受欢迎程度对学业表现也有轻微影响。

So it's no wonder that in the United States, female politicians suffer greatly, as our elections tend to value likability over competency.

因此，难怪在美国，女性政治家会遭受很大痛苦，因为我们选举往往更看重是否讨人喜欢而不是能力。

When you're navigating those relationships, I think there's two principles, respect over likability, and equity and fairness are premier.

当你处理些关系时，我认为有两个原则：尊重胜于讨人喜欢，公平和公正是首要原则。

For many, this can be read as overly planned and emotionless, which experts say is a key reason she ranks low in likability.

对于许多人来说，可被解读为过度计划和冷漠，专家说是她受欢迎程度低一个关键原因。