Without a decent amount of self-love, the love of another person will always be prone to feel sickening and misguided — and we will self-destructively — though unconsciously — set out to repel or disappoint it.
对自己不够喜欢的话,别人对我们的爱,我们往往会为之感到恶心、视之为错误,并且会自我毁灭般地(尽管是不自觉地)一心
对方的爱,或令其知难而退。