A soft one wrapped in cloth that did nothing and a cold mechanical mother made of wire, but nonetheless did provide food, but despite being a cupboard mother.the young baby monkeys didn't bond with her.
When we talk about empowered women we are talking about women who are not dependent on men or anyone else for the direction of their lives, they make their own choices.
However, when you're not dependent on sugar for that boost in pleasure, then your baseline happiness is much higher and you're more content all the time, not just when you get sugar.