Remember, you don't have to be unkind. Say sorry, when sorry is do.

记住，你不必不近。该道歉时就道歉。

You may only wanna say it to not be unkind.

你这么说可能只是不想让觉得你不近。

While he did well academically, he found the place to be authoritarian, dehumanizing, and alienating.

尽管他在业上表现出色，但他发现这个地方是专制，不道，不近。

Sure, I do. In fact, I think the concept of marriage is unnatural.

当然是 事实上我觉得婚姻本身 就很不近。

A formal marriage agreement sounds clinical, but it can be a good idea.

【clinical】签订一份正婚姻协议听起来不近，却是个不错主意。

One insensitive official insisted on seeing her husband’s death certificate.

【insensitive】一位不近官员非要看看她丈夫死亡证明。

He must have flown away, back to the Other Place, away without her–a bad, unkind, unnatural man.

他一定是飞走了，没有带她就回到那另外地方去了——那是个狠心、不近坏蛋。

I like you because you're an alien but you're funny, unlike my brother who's an alien but just a jerk.

我喜欢你因为你是个风趣外星，不像我哥哥是个不近怪胎。

But he could be hard at times, with a tongue like a razor. He felt he'd ruined Vera's life, Miss Smith.

但有时候会不近，说些尖刻话。他觉得是他毁了薇拉生活，史密斯姐。

Look, I don't mean to sound cruel but the lad was obviously troubled and off his head for all we know.

我不想听上去不近，不用说他确有心病，并为此丢了性命。

I do find you to be kind of absurd, inhuman in a lot of ways.

我发现你确实有些荒谬，在很多方面显得不近。

And then to say, what's the plan, would be a little bit unkind.

然后问“计划是什么”，会显得有点不近。

I think we're mostly agreed that it would be just a bit unkind.

我想我们大多都认同，那样做未免有点不近。

In fact, the other side of the argument is less than human.

事实上，争论另一方简直不近。

That might sound very insensitive, to kind of frame it that way.

那听起来可能有点不近，用这种方来表述。

That is cynicism of the ugliest order, counselor.

你这讽刺太不近了 加德纳先生。

In fact, I think the whole concept of marriage is unnatural.

事实上 我觉得婚姻本身就很不近。

No, I think we were all a little bit insensitive.

不，我觉得我们都 有点不近。

I'm going back to the army in a month. ’

" 欧，芭丝谢芭姐！这太不近了！我在这儿呆不了多久。我一个月后就要回军队去。"

To me, there is something inhuman, something callous and almost bovine, in the practice.

我觉得这种习惯中有某种不近、冷酷、麻木东西。