It sounds brutal, but the people-pleaser is lying for poignant reasons: not in order to gain advantage, but because they are terrified of the displeasure of others.

虽然这听起来不近人，讨好者说谎，确实处于辛酸原因：他们不为自己牟利，只因为害怕他人不悦。

Sure, I do. In fact, I think the concept of marriage is unnatural.

当然 事实上觉得婚姻本身 就很不近人。

You may only wanna say it to not be unkind.

你这么说可能只不想让人觉得你不近人。

While he did well academically, he found the place to be authoritarian, dehumanizing, and alienating.

尽管他在学业上表现出色，他发现这个地方专制，不人道，不近人。

A formal marriage agreement sounds clinical, but it can be a good idea.

【clinical】签订一份正式婚姻协议听起来不近人，却个不错主意。

" Yes, and in eighty days! He says it is on a wager; but, between us, I don't believe a word of it. That wouldn't be common sense. There's something else in the wind" .

" 啊，用八十天时间！据他说这打赌。可，不瞒您说，一点都不相信。这事有点不近人，一定另有文章！"

I will end the session.It has been a very good one.I have been giving you a lot of basic material, so if I sound more like an impersonal lecturer than a friend, I hope you will forgive me.

将结束这一节。这非常不错一课。给你们讲了很多基本资料，所以， 如果听起来更像一个不近人讲师而不朋友，希望你们会原谅。

I had been working at Facebook for almost a year when I learned that someone had said something about me that was not just false, but cruel.

在脸谱网工作了差不多一年之后，发现有人在议论，其言辞相当犀利而且不近人。

I'm just amazed that even you would choose the day after I learn the man I love is dead to try out a new fashion.

只觉得惊讶，即便你也能如此不近人，在得知爱人已死第二天换新发型。

That's not very nice. I drove all the way here. -No, you didn't. You were never here. In fact, you never even called.

你可有点不近人啊。大老远跑来。-不，你从来就没来过。事实上，你连电话都没打过。

Naturally enough, the Canadian wanted to lay in a supply of honey, and it would have been ill-mannered of me to say no.

很自然，加拿大人要采取蜂蜜，留作食用，如果反对，那就显得不近人。

But he could be hard at times, with a tongue like a razor. He felt he'd ruined Vera's life, Miss Smith.

有时候会不近人，说些尖刻话。他觉得他毁了薇拉生活，史密斯小姐。

I like you because you're an alien but you're funny, unlike my brother who's an alien but just a jerk.

喜欢你因为你个风趣外星人，不像哥哥个不近人怪胎。

He must have flown away, back to the Other Place, away without her–a bad, unkind, unnatural man.

他一定飞走了，没有带她就回到那另外地方去了——那个狠心、不近人坏蛋。

Remember, you don't have to be unkind. Say sorry, when sorry is do.

记住，你不必不近人。该道歉时就道歉。

One insensitive official insisted on seeing her husband’s death certificate.

【insensitive】一位不近人官员非要看看她丈夫死亡证明。

Look, I don't mean to sound cruel but the lad was obviously troubled and off his head for all we know.

不想听上去不近人，不用说他确有心病，并为此丢了性命。

I do find you to be kind of absurd, inhuman in a lot of ways.

发现你确实有些荒谬，在很多方面显得不近人。

And then to say, what's the plan, would be a little bit unkind.

然后问“计划什么”，会显得有点不近人。

In fact, the other side of the argument is less than human.

事实上，争论另一方简直不近人。