'A Woman Undone, by Rachel Karen Green'.

《丢的女人》——作者Rachel Karen Green。

Many recruiters say the old disgrace is fading for top performers.

很多招聘的人都说对于高管而言，过去认为的丢的感觉(没有工作)已经慢慢消失了。

I think the only thing that tops that was, was, was when I was in the eighth grade and I had to sing the Copacabana in front of the entire school.

我想唯一比这个还要丢的… 就是我八年级在全校面前唱《科巴卡巴纳》那次了。

Because almost everything all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.

因为几乎所有的一切一切外界对你的期待、一切荣耀、一切对丢和失败的恐惧 -这些东西在面对死亡的时候都黯然失色，剩下的只有真正重要的东西。

So I wasn't always as focused as I should have been on school, and I did some things I'm not proud of, and I got in more trouble than I should have.

我并非总是像我应该做到的那专心学习，我做过许多我自己觉得丢的事情，也惹出许多自己不该惹的祸。

It's rarely if ever going to happen, but that isn't something to be ashamed of.

这很会发生，但也不是什么丢的事。

The boys humiliated their parents by behaving badly in front of the guest.

这些男孩因在客人面前表现不好，而使他们的父母丢。

I won't embarrass you, Dad. Not this time.

老爸，这次我不会给你丢的。

There are few more shameful confesions to make than that we are lonely.

坦承自己很孤独，是件蛮丢的事一般认为一个广受尊崇的人。

Apologizing isn't something to be shy of.

道歉不是丢的行为。

Neither do I. Apparently, I'm an embarrassment to Bohunt.

我也是。显然我是负责给博航特丢的。

Yes, and we shall never speak of this again. I am embarrassed enough.

我们再也别提这件事了，有够丢的了。

But there's a lot of things about me that would totally embarrass you.

但是我的很多事也会让你觉得很丢的。

There is no shame in that, man.

这没什么好丢的。

" Well, that's nothing to be ashamed of, " said Fred, who had just arrived at the table with George and Lee Jordan and was sitting down on Harry's right. " Nothing wrong with a good healthy 'P'."

“唉，这没有什么可丢的，”弗雷德说，他刚刚和乔治和李乔丹一起来到桌子这里，坐在了哈利右边，“一个健康又精神的‘P’，没有什么不好。”

Kumail and Emily took theirs and made it heartfelt and funny, and at an enormous personal risk- because there's nothing more humiliating than sharing the most important story in your life and having the movie be awful.

库梅尔和艾米丽掏出了他们自己的故事，还把它述地那么真诚有趣，但这些都是冒着巨大的个人风险过来的——因为没有什么比分享自己生命中最重要的故事，把电影变得很可怕更丢的了。

" Don't let him, " whispered Trumpkin to Peter. " He's a good creature, but he'll shame us all. He'll go to sleep and he will suck his paws. In front of the enemy too."

“别派它去当公证人。”杜鲁普金小声对彼得说，“不错，它秉性善良，但是派去当公证人，它会给我们丢的。它会在决斗还没有结束的时候呼呼睡大觉。它还会吮它的爪子，甚至当着敌人的面！”

Then, there was that Butler man. His frequent calls at Aunt Pitty's house were the greatest humiliation of all. Frank had always disliked him, even when he had done business with him before the war.

" 此外，还有巴特勒那个男人，他经常到皮蒂姑妈家来，这是最最丢的事。弗兰克一直厌恶这个人，即使在战前和他做生意的时候。

You know...I can't decide which is more humiliating the fact that my son got caught with pot in his locker or that he can't even come up with a decent enough lie to explain it.

你知道吗......我不知道哪个更让我丢，我的子柜子里有大麻的事实，或者是他没有一个合理的理由来解释这一切。

Emma, opposite, watched him; she did not share his humiliation; she felt another—that of having supposed such a man was worth anything. As if twenty times already she had not sufficiently perceived his mediocrity.

艾玛坐在对面瞧着他。她并不分担他的耻辱，她感到丢的是，她怎么能想象一个这的人，会做出什么有价值的事来， 难道她看了二十回，还看不出他的庸碌无能吗！