I'm, but I won't, I'm not a spender in terms that I get in debt, but I also struggle to save for anything unless I've got a target, where my husband naturally puts money aside and just saves for no reason.
It's like it never happened before and you're completely surprised and shocked, especially when they will tell you I'll stop, I'll stop drinking, I won't spend so much money, I'll do what you're asking me to do.
We are not going on vacation we are selling so much stuff the kids think they're next and we're gonna do the written budget and we're gonna stick to it and
That is the educator in her saying, hey, you don't need to be out spending that money when you don't know about the key principles of saving and investing first.