Well, speaking of going out, have you ever used a dating app?

说到玩乐，你用过交软件吗？

I had to learn a lot of technical skills in a really short span of time, and for an entire year, my Tinder profile looked like this.

我要在极短时间内学习大量技术能力，一整年以来，我的 Tinder（注：交软件）头像都长这样。

Now then, Dan. What do you think of dating apps - you know, apps on your phone that help you find a romantic partner?

那么丹，你怎么看待交软件呢？就是手机上用来找对象的APP。

Online dating scams use this strategy all the time.

网上交骗局一直使用该策略。

The next day, you meet up with an old friend and you don't hesitate to tell them everything about the concert and the missed opportunity at the end.

第二天，你遇到了老朋，你毫不犹豫地把音乐会的细节告诉了他们，包括最后错失的交机会。

I'm an outgoing girl who likes to make friends with people.

我是一个喜欢与人交的外向女孩。

When you're a high 4, for example, you belong to the social elite and will get access to the best housing, the best transport, the most prestigious social circle, and higher mating opportunities.

比如，当你处于 4 分的上段时，你属于社交精英并且能出入最好的住宅、交通工具，最具声望的社交圈和更有利的交机会。

So, computers really have allowed us to do some pretty amazing things - think global telecommunications, international commerce, global transportation, breakthroughs in medicine, distributed education, online shopping, online dating, just the Internet in general.

计算机确实帮助我们实现了很多不可思议的事情全球通信，国际贸易，交通运输，医学革新，公平教育，网络购物，交恋爱，互联网的方方面面。

His mom bought him this book called “How to Make Friends in New Places, ” and he came to my house trying all these dumb gimmicks.

他妈给他买了一本书叫《到了新地方如何交朋》，于是他就到我家门前来耍那些笨得不行的交。

It is a mistake for managers to wade into the business of friend-making, and not just because it royally misses the point.

经理们干涉交是错误的，这不仅仅是因为他们完全没有抓住重点。

And several subsequent studies have also used Aron's fast friends protocol as a way to quickly create trust and intimacy between strangers.

随后的几项研究同样使用了阿伦的速交模式， 以此来在陌生人之间 迅速地建立信任，消除隔阂。

It impacts the choices in the friends that we make, the jobs we apply for, how we treat our children.

这会影响我们交的选择、工作申请，还有我们对待孩子的态度。

Grindr is a hookup app that tells you how close you are to the nearest gay, bi, or " straight" man.

Grindr是一款交app，它可以告诉你最近的同性恋、双性恋或直男的距离有多近。

But don't forget that making friends is not a numbers game or a competition, don't compare yourself to others.

但也别忘了，交不是场比赛，所以不需要与他人比较。

" It's more of a modern way of making friends, " Sartori said in an interview with the BBC.

“这是一种更现代的交方式，”萨托里在接受 BBC 采访时表示。

OK, let's recap the new vocabulary we've learnt in this programme about the language of online romance starting with dating profile – a brief written description of yourself which you hope will attract a partner.

好的，让我们回顾一下本期节目中学习到的关于网恋的新词汇，从交简介开始，交简介是你希望能吸引到伴侣的简要书面描述。

So the most important principle of making friends is to regularly spend time with people in the real world.

所以交最重要的原则是有规律地和他人在现实世界里共度时光。

But as always with information found on the internet, there's a danger that someone's dating profile doesn't tell the whole truth.

但是一如在互联网上找到的信息，有些人的交简介可能并不完全真实。

Even though dating apps are not used as much as we might think, they are still big business, but do you know how big?

尽管交软件的使用者不如我们想象中的多，但市场却很大。

Now, research shows that fewer than 5% of people who have used dating apps, actually go out on a date with someone they met through them.

现在，有研究显示，交软件的用户中只有少于5%的人在现实中见面了。