The gift was so apparently an offering of love he could not verbalize that I would throw my arms around him and kiss him—an act that undoubtedly perpetuated his behavior.

这些礼物如地传达着不善用言辞表达的爱，这时，我便搂住，吻，这昵的行为，无疑使再度大方。

So he sort of, he would, he would show us how he cared for us, if that makes sense, rather than deep sort of physical shows of affection.

所以有点， ，通过这种方式来表达对我们的关心，如果这样说你能理解的话， 而不是通过深层次的身体上的昵行为。