The gift was so apparently an offering of love he could not verbalize that I would throw my arms around him and kiss him—an act that undoubtedly perpetuated his behavior.

这些礼物如此真切地传达着他不善用言辞表达爱，这时，搂住他，吻他，这行为，无疑使他再度大方。

So he sort of, he would, he would show us how he cared for us, if that makes sense, rather than deep sort of physical shows of affection.

所以他有点， 他，他通过这种方式来表达他对们关心，如果这样说你能理解话， 而不是通过深层次身体上行为。