She highlights a paper by researcher Iris Schneider which finds that indecisive people are more likely to look at different perspectives and use them to come to a better decision.

她强调了研究员艾里斯·施耐德一篇论文，该论文发现优柔寡有可能从不同角度来看问题，并利用这些角度做好决定。

I've never liked a guy who straddles the fence or has namby-pamby opinions.

我从来都不喜欢那些骑墙或者优柔寡。

I think that that might be true of a weak person, an indecisive person, someone who lacks confidence, or people skills but a nice person or a good person can also be an incredibly charismatic strong leading attractive person.

我认为对于一个软弱、一个优柔寡、一个缺乏自信或一个缺乏际交往能力来说，这可能是正确，但一个好或一个好也可以是一个非常有魅力、强大、有吸引力。

I think I'm an incredibly indecisive person and that's like one of the things I don't, one of the qualities about myself I don't like very much.

我认为自己是一个极其优柔寡，这是我非常不喜欢自己一点。

Which, you know, if you're an indecisive person, like it can really hold you back in life.

你知道，如果你是个优柔寡，这真会严重阻碍你在生活中发展。

And I was like, would you say you're a decisive person and you're an indecisive person?

我说，你会说你是个果，还是个优柔寡呢？