But if the parent is more punitive, the picture grows darker: approval is always uncertain, there is a constant fear of being called arrogant or of being upbraided for something one hadn't thought about.

但如果其父母更为苛刻，那么孩子的内心会更消沉，无法确定自己是否被，是在担心会被怪太过傲慢，就是在担心会因为自己没有想到的事情备。

'Very well. Will you help me? If we are wrong, I'll make sure that you're not blamed for it.'

“很好。那么愿意帮助我吗？万一弄错了，我会让备的。”

Yeah, it's always better for people to know in advance rather than getting reprimanded for something that maybe they didn't know they weren't supposed to do.

是的，提前告知人们总比让他们因能知该做的事备要好。

For everyone who does evil hates the light, and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed.

凡作恶的便恨光，并来就光， 恐怕他的行为备。

It was worse than any reproach, and it made me ashamed to deserve a reproach from her.

这比任何备都糟糕， 让我觉得她的备感到羞愧。

But everything exposed by the light becomes visible—and everything that is illuminated becomes a light.

凡事了备，就被光显明出来，因为一切能显明的就是光。

They had brawled over who was to blame.

他们为谁该备吵架。

And when he comes, he will convince the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment.

他来的时候，要使世人因罪、因义、因审判备。