Too many seem to think that good intentions excuse away harmful outcomes.

许多人认意可以果的借口。

We are each a patchwork quilt of those who have loved us, those who have believed in our futures, those who showed us empathy and kindness or told us the truth even when it wasn't easy to hear.

我们每个人都是由那些爱过我们的人、那些相信我们的未来的人、那些向我们展示同情心和意的人或在我们并不容易听到时告诉我们真相的人拼凑而。

In addition, half the participants, chosen at random, were invited to a series of workshops run by a licensed therapist, to learn a meditation technique intended to engender in the meditator a feeling of goodwill towards both himself and others.

另外，以随机的方式抽取了一半的参与者，被邀请参加一系列由特许理疗师主持的研讨会，学习冥想技巧，以达到一名对自己或者他人心怀意的禅定者。

Mostly because well meaning adults protected you by cleaning up your mess and giving you time to find yourself.

主要是因意的人会帮你擦屁股，并给你时间来寻找自我。

Most parents are well meaning, but some of them aren't very helpful with the problems their sons and daughters have in adjusting to college.

大多数家长是意的，但是有些家长在孩子适应大学生活的问题上并不能起帮助作用。

An act of kindness can change your day.

一个意的行可以改变你的一天。

Yet I was treated with kindness everywhere I went.

然而，我在所到之处受到的都是意的款待。

That was when I realized that this sort of benign neglect was a real problem, and it had real consequences, not just for Alex and her love life, but for the careers and the families and the futures of twentysomethings everywhere.

那一刻我意识到这种意的忽视是一个严重的问题，而且是有后果，不仅对Alex和她的感情生活，而是对所有处于20多岁的人的事业、家庭和未来。

Feeding them, however, represents misguided kindness because the bears come to expect such generosity from everyone and consequently, trouble could lie ahead.

然而，这种意的喂养带有误导性，因熊开始期待每个人都能如此慷慨，而这很可能会引发麻烦。

Like many timeless carols, it speaks not just to the coming of Jesus Christ into a divided world, many years ago, but also of the relevance even today of the angel's message of peace and goodwill.

正如许多不衰的颂歌那样，它讲述的不仅仅是很久之前耶稣基督来到一个充满分歧的世界上，那也是天使们传递的和平与意的信息，直到今天。

With good will on all sides such a thing might be possible – but we do not have good will on all sides.

在各方都有意的情况下，这样的事情可能是可能的—但我们并不是在所有方面都很意。

I was relying on the kindness of friends.

我依赖于朋友的意。

A little bit of kindness literally goes a long way.

一点点的意真的能起到很大作用。

Sometimes a well-intentioned remark can be misconceived as something hurtful or ignorant, so it's very important that you know how to be careful with your words.

有时一句意的话语会被误解伤人的话或无知的话，所以要知道谨慎用词是非常重要的。

Annas says lawyers can play a key role in insisting that these well-meaning medical initiatives translate into better care.

安纳斯说，律师可以在要求把医疗界的这些意的行变更好的护理行动方面发挥关键作用。

Thank you, my dear, he said, for your kindness to a poor old man.

谢谢你，亲爱的小女孩，老人说到谢谢你对可怜老人的意。

And while these responses are well-meaning, knowing the benefits it brought me, it makes me incredibly frustrated when people are told that they couldn't or shouldn't work, when it's something that they want to do and physically can do.

虽然这些反应是意的，知道这样能给我带来好处，当我被告知不能或不应该再工作时，而这恰恰是我想要做的事情和身体上可以做的事情时，这会让我感到难以置信的沮丧。

The old kill them with kindness trick really does stop them in their tracks.

这种“以意杀死他们”的老把戏真的能阻止他们。

There are a few well-intentioned paving stones in there.

其中也有一些意的铺路石。

So thank you all for your kind inquiries and questions and compliments.

所以感谢大家的意询问、问题和赞美。