You're privileged. You're pampered. You're spoiled. You want what you want when you want it.

你是有特权的，娇惯的。你被宠坏了。你想要什么的时候就要得到它。

As a child, Desmond Tutu's mother would pamper him give him special treatment and make him feel special by doing nice things for him.

当德斯蒙德·图图还是个孩子的时候，他的母亲很娇惯他给他特殊的，他很好，让他觉得自己很特别。

She had set her feet upon that road a spoiled, selfish and untried girl, full of youth, warm of emotion, easily bewildered by life.

当初踏上这条路时，她还是个娇惯了的、自私自利而不谙世故的少女，浑身的青春活力，满怀热忱，很容易为生活所迷惑。

There's a reason why we were so easy on you.

我们你那么娇惯 是有原因的。

His mother spoiled him, indulging his every whim.

【indulge】他母亲他纵容娇惯，百依百顺。

My sisters sometimes thought that our mother rather spoiled me, pampered me.

她有时候觉得母亲相当宠爱我，娇惯我。

Last year Google was persuaded to drop out of a lucrative tender to provide the Pentagon with artificial-intelligence software after moral objections from its coddled coders.

去年，谷歌被说服放弃了为五角大楼提供人工智能软件的竞标，这一项目利润丰厚，但遭到了娇惯的程序员在道德上的反。

Some people think they're important for creating safe and open spaces for everyone, while others believe they coddle people and stifle free speech.

有些人认为，这种预警于为所有人创造一个安全、开放的空重要，其他人则认为这种预警过其实是于娇惯大家，扼杀了言论自由。

This thereby leads them to expect the same kind of spoilt treatment throughout their adult lives.

这导致他们在整个成年生活中期得到同样的娇惯纵容。

So far investors have been indulgent of France; indeed, long-term interest rates have fallen a bit.

至今为止，投资者都太娇惯法国了，因此长期利率只跌了一点。

Look, your son is obviously brilliant, but coddling him won't prepare him for the real world.

你听我说，你儿子显然聪明绝顶，但一昧娇惯他，他日后就无法适应真实世界。

But now she knew her feelings of that long-past night were those of a spoiled child thwarted of a toy.

可如今她才知道，她在那个早已过去的夜晚所经历的，只不过是一个被夺走了玩具的娇惯孩子的感情而已。

As a child, Desmond Tutu's mother would pamper him – give him special treatment and make him feel special by doing nice things for him He also says his mother spoiled him – let him do or have whatever he wanted.

小时候，德斯蒙德·图图的母亲很娇惯他，即给他特殊的，让他感觉自己是特别的。他还说，他的母亲很溺爱他，即让他想做什么做什么，想要什么给什么。

Right, let's recap the vocabulary we've learned in this programme, starting with pamper – to give someone special treatment.

好的，让我们回顾一下我们在本期节目中学到的词汇，首先从“娇惯”开始——给予某人特殊的。

That he would propose some day she had never doubted, for she was too young and too spoiled ever to have known defeat.

她从未怀疑他有一天会向她求婚，因为她实太年轻太娇惯了，从来不懂得失内是怎么回事。

We've grown to coddle our children, but we ourselves are too coddled.

我们越来越溺爱孩子，而自己却也被过度娇惯。

We are so coseted and luxurious about how we do the memory keeping work.

我们于如何进行记忆保存工作的方式过于娇惯和奢华。

Because when I started this work, when I started writing The Coddling of the American Mind with Greg Lukianoff, we first wrote our article in 2015 in The Atlantic, and we thought college students were millennials.

因为在开始这项工作时， 当我与格雷格·卢基亚诺夫一起撰写《娇惯美国人心智》一书时，我们在2015年在《大西洋月刊》上发表了我们的文章，当时我们认为大学生是千禧一代。

And so what is this line between secure, safe, But on the other hand, something that I can't imagine is good for any kids, kind of subversion of like over-catered to or coddled.

因此，安全与舒适之的界限在哪里？一方面是保障安全，但另一方面，我无法想象那种过度迎合或娇惯孩子的行为会他们有益，这几乎是一种颠覆。

There's something refreshing about the cool pragmatism she shows in the face of Samuel's insecurity, the way she refuses to shortchange her career or coddle her husband for his failures.

她在面塞缪尔的不安全感时所表现出的冷静务实让人耳目一新，她拒绝牺牲自己的事业或娇惯丈夫以安慰他的失败。