Now, most of us aren't help-rejecting complainers, or at least we don't believe we are.

现在，我们大部分不是拒绝帮助抱怨者，或者至少我们不相信自己是。

Some promoters complain festivals are getting harder to run.

部分推广者抱怨，音乐节来。

Today we're taking a look at why such a poor, innocent leaf can stoke such vitriol from the cilantro-phobes among us.

今天我们就来看看为什么这种不起眼且“清白”绿叶菜引发香菜恐惧者抱怨。

And you can hear the campers complaining.

而且你可以听到露营者在抱怨。

How can one stop being a chronic complainer according to the author?

5. 根据作者说法，一个如何不再是一个长期抱怨者？

What is characteristic of a chronic complainer, according to psychiatrist Eric Berne?

1. 根据精神病学家 Eric Berne 说法，长期抱怨者特征是什么？

You know, a complaint, it's easy to blame the complainer.

你知道，抱怨嘛，们很容易责怪抱怨者。

It's always the incompetent people, and not just the incompetent, but the biggest whiners.

总是那些无，而且不仅仅是无，还是最大抱怨者。

Because Isabel was complaining about how influencers won't talk to other influencers.

因为伊莎贝尔在抱怨影响力者们不愿意互相交流。

All these Wall Street, you know, bellyachers.

所有这些华尔街，你知道，抱怨者们。

While the lazy complain, others are taking the time to get things done.

当懒惰者抱怨时，其他却在花时间把事情做好。

What does the author advise people to do to chronic complainers?

3. 作者建议们对长期抱怨者做什么？

Certain sounds trigger intense emotional or psychological responses that may seem over the top compared with a non-sufferer's complaints.

某些声音会引发强烈情绪或心理反应，与未受苦者抱怨相比，这些反应似乎有些过头了。

What happens when chronic complainers receive over-validation?

4. 当长期抱怨者接受过度验证时会发生什么？

Let me tell you something about complaining and crying that's really, really gonna hurt for all you complainers out there.

让我告诉你一些关于抱怨和哭泣事情，这真会伤害所有抱怨者。

He has reached a level of douchebaggery that will live on for generations, passed down by whinge-talkers and the like.

他已经达到了一种将世代相传 douchebaggery 水平，由抱怨者等传承下来。

Surround yourself with uplifting people, positivity can be contagious seek out those who radiate optimism and support limit time with chronic complainers.

与令振奋在一起，积极性可以传染， 寻找那些散发乐观并支持与长期抱怨者合作。

So a help rejecting complainer is a person who is always telling you, you know, this went wrong and it was somebody else's fault.

因此， 一个拒绝帮助抱怨者， 就是那种总是告诉你事情出了差错，并且责任在别身上。

So beware of help rejecting complainers because they're always going to come to you and you're going to at first feel bad for them.

因此，要警惕那些拒绝帮助抱怨者，因为他们总会找上你，而你一开始会为他们感到过。

One lobbyist in Washington grouses that the White House makes the oil industry feel as though it is unwelcome today and will become more unwelcome going forward.

华盛顿一位游说者抱怨说，白宫让石油行业感到，如今它在这里不受欢迎，而且未来会来不受欢迎。