It is so much easier for us to think that we are (as they also quickly tell us) irrationally prone to anger, over-excited, 'insane' and complaining for no reason — rather than deep in a relationship with a cruel soul.
And although they were often totally off-base — which makes me feel bad for those guys who sipped urine for no reason — they were kind of on to something.
Maybe those conversations will get the conversation that needs to happen between the west side and the east side, going somehow, because this is not happening for no reason.