We learn about who we are and what is expected of us based on interactions with others so, to a four-year-old, if Mommy or Daddy doesn't like him or her, there is the danger that they will abandon them.
我们通过与他人的互动来了解自我,了解他人对我们的期望,因此,对于一个四岁的孩子来说,如果妈妈或爸爸不喜欢自己,他们就有被抛弃的危险。