We are born with very different genetic tendencies which society encourages as either " masculine" or " feminine" .

我们生就有极其不同的基因倾向，这种倾向被社会强化为“男子气”或“女性化”。

Although never clearly articulated (it would not be manly to do so) , the Hemingway Defense goes something like this: as a writer, I am a very sensitive fellow, but I am also a man, and real men don't give in to their sensitivities.

虽然海明威从没有明确说过这番话（把话这么明白说出太不够男子气了），辩词大致如下：我，个非常敏感的人，我又个男人，而真正的男子汉决不能屈服于内心的敏感和软弱。

I'm a strong, virile, horse of a man, stuck in the body of some weak, sick bastard that I don't know, like recognize.

一个强壮，男子气的猛男，只能被身体某些部位的病魔纠缠，而且我不知道，无法认知什么病。

While this man from England was like punching the fucking wall in outrage at me.

这位自英国的男子气像要砸墙一样，对我怒不可遏。

Because when manhood is located between one's legs, and defined in opposition to womanhood, what's between one's legs cannot be seen as having anything in common with womanhood.

因为当男子气在两腿之间， 与女子气相对时，两腿之间就不能被看与女子气有任何共同之处。

What I meant to say is that you're sweet, but you're aIso manIy.

我想说的， 你很可爱，不过你也有男子气。

So I used to do a lot of cold plunging, but that was a little too masculine.

所以我以前经常做冷水浸泡，那有点太男子气了。