Self-preservation is also good thing. You have to depend on yourself to survive.

" 我保护" 也是好事，你必须靠己生存。但，哀不是好事。

He’d been feeling sorry for himself, wallowing in self-pity.

【wallow】他一直哀怜，法拔。

It’s no good feeling sorry for yourself. It’s all your own fault.

【sorry】你哀怜没有用， 这都是你己的过错。

Colin was losing the argument and feeling sorry for himself.

科林在争论中处于下风，怜哀。

But this talk about " I suck, " " I can't do this, " and self-pity...

但是像" 我很差劲 我不行了”哀的话。

He was a man who spent much of his life wallowing in self pity or else engaged in an endless campaign of self-promotion.

他一生中大部分时间都在怜哀 或是在休止地我推销。

The young boy could have felt sorry for himself and become depressed, or he could have adopted hardened cynicism as a defense.

这个小男孩本可以怜哀， 变得抑郁，或者采取愤世嫉俗的态度作为防御。